What is a relationship reading?

Relationship readings are a magical way to tap into the energy of your relationship.

It’s an easy way to access guidance around what needs to happen for you and your partner to grow closer together

I’ve been doing Relationship Readings (RR) for a few years now, so I figured it was about time I shared more about them.

While I usually focus on RR for a romantic purpose, they also work for friendships, family relationships - or even the relationship you have with yourself (the most important of all!)

What is a Relationship Reading?

It’s all in the name: a reading for your relationship! That’s it - end of the article. Kidding!

So a relationship reading is a spiritual reading done for your relationship. It can be done using tarot or oracle cards, a pendulum, or any other divination means.

I share more below on how I do them.

What’s the difference between a relationship reading and a tarot reading?

A « generic » reading (using tarot, tea leaves, palmistry, etc.) can be on any topic: work, life, business, family - anything.

In a relationship reading however, we’re focusing on your relationship specifically.

Because every relationship is a living, breathing thing. It has the energy of the people in it, but it also has an energy of its own.

How do I know? I see it!

How does a Relationship Reading Work?

The truth is, I don’t really know /how/ it works. I don’t know « how » I get all the spookily accurate info about the couple/relationship I read for

VISUAL TESTIMONIAL MANGA

I don’t know how others do it neither - I don’t actually know others who do that. But I’ll tell you my process:

When I do a relationship reading, I first look at the picture + answers I receive when you book your reading (there is a small form to fill).

Those help me get a first feel of the energy of your relationship. Then, I set up a working space, away from my laptop. I need peace and quiet.

I may light a candle, burn some incense, or use essential oils. Sometimes I bring some cards along, or my pendulum. It all depends on the mood and what’s needed.

I then ask my Guides + your Guides to show up. I’m very specific in the wording I use, because I only want the assistance from entities who have our best and highest interests at heart. Boundaries are key - even with Spirits!

By this point, I’ll usually have received some information already.

I first draw a visual on a piece of paper - in rough lines, usually a geometric shape. That’s the energy of your relationship. Pretty cool huh?

VISUAL EXAMPLE

It’s not a piece of art (but you can turn it into one!) but it helps me sense the general vibe of your relationship.

Details come in next: I pick up what’s going on with you and with your partner/the other person.

At this point I’m just scribbling on the paper like a mad person because the words need to get out.

When I feel like everything came out, I go back to my computer to write your report.

The jolted down words help, and I usually have more details coming in as I fill it in.

Here’s the structure I use for relationship readings:

• Individual check-ins for you and your partner

• General blocks/challenges I’m picking up on.

• How you can connect together more deeply on 4 levels:

  • Emotional,

  • Intellectual,

  • Physical,

  • Spiritual.

It’s usually 3-4 pages long and also includes a picture of the visual I first drew.

The last part includes tangible recommendations that will work for you and him/her.

I cannot stress that enough: your relationship reading is 100% personalised to YOU and your relationship.

The whole purpose is to give you a better understanding and CONCRETE actions to connect more deeply.

It’s not general advice like « have a candle lit dinner » (although that might actually be what comes up for you, who knows!).

It’s advice that’s been channeled from Spirit to help you in your relationship. So you can have a better relationship the easy + magical way.

The best part about relationship readings?

You don’t have to explain me much about your relationship. I just get it.

I can feel what’s going on emotionally and even in my body - so you’re not pouring your heart out to a stranger, or a therapist who’s gonna nod in an awkward silence (we’ve all been there, right?)

After you receive your reading, I’m available to answer any questions you might have by email.

There is also the option for us to have a 1:1 session after your reading. We can talk about how your reading landed, but mainly we go deeper into your side of things.

For instance if I felt you had trouble receiving compliments, or weren’t so comfortable on the sexual side - we can address that. This session focuses on YOU and what you can do to make your relationship better.

I’m here to help you make powerful + sustainable changes in the context of your relationship (and often beyond) using a mix of coaching, hypnosis, and intuitive guidance.

Ready to welcome more ease + magic in your relationship?